Just leave

For all ladies out there, when a guy asks you to go away, kindly go away. Respect yourself, and the gender you represent and simply go away. Men do not play these kinda games. When they say something like that, they straight-forwardly mean it. Men do not send hidden messages when they break up, they are not being absurd or playing hard to get. They simply do not want you.

The thing about us women and them men is that we have different means of communication. Women tend to communicate what they want in a rather complicated way, they send messages that need to be decoded. Poor men, they have to have so many different decoding maps to read women since we do not all have the same coding system. However, men are simple, they say what they mean. Even when they have to “encipher”, it’s very simple and common amongst all men; for example when they say: “I’m tired I don’t feel like going out, let’s order some pizza and watch a DVD”, this means it's about time to have sex, even if it's only your second date! Very simple. Now of course they lie in every possible way, manipulate the truth and twist the facts all they want, but when they talk it’s quite simple.

Also we have to know that men will not take any decision. The BALLS they brag about, help them in every way except running a relationship. The funny thing is that they don’t even admit it. It is a fact that women take all the important steps. They choose the man, not the contrary, they draw the lines, they decide to go to bed, they decide to take the relationship to the next step and the most important is that they END the relationship. Now men will drive you crazy at each step, they will manipulate you and try to push the relationship the way they want, so it becomes a battle field, but they won’t take decisions. Especially when they’re fed up with the relationship and they want to break. They won’t do it, they will push you to do it. They will make your life miserable and oppress you in many ways, so when you’re fed up you leave them. What a torture. But anyways, what I wanna say here is when they actually SAY that they don’t want you anymore, believe me that means that every other possible way did not work with you, you are still sticking to their awful ass no matter what they try to do.

For example, if you choose to move from Bahrain to Dubai to be with him WITHOUT him asking you, that’s stupid. When you impose yourself on him and move in WITHOUT him asking you, that’s stupid. When you change all your life, move in all your expensive furniture without having the slightest clue where are you going to put it, when you bring your cats to live with his dogs, and you pay a fortune to bring your horse and put it in a fancy bloody expensive stable, when he knows how much money and effort you invested and how you drastically changed your life for him and despite all of that he asks you to move out while you haven’t been in more than 2 months, when he does that it means that he doesn’t want you. When he, on several occasion, tells you that it’s not working, when he doesn’t tell you what is he doing for Christmas and New Year, when he doesn’t invite to come with him to the States, while he knows how much you hate to go back to UK in the festive season, this means that he doesn’t want you in his life. And when you keep going around saying: "I want to leave him, I want to leave him", believe me, we all know that he wants to leave you, because no sane woman would bring the guy she wants to leave to her company’s official launching and introduce him to all her colleagues. And finally, after all what he’s done, and you still did not get it, finally when he tells you straight in the face that he doesn’t want to be with you anymore, please have some dignity and leave.